why is it when a guy cheats on a girl he is scum. but when a girl cheats on a guy its still our fault? shit like this just pisses me the fuck off. i just found out my gf who i was going to get married to is cheating on me so i canceled the wedding.it just makes me feel like shit since i took a bullet for her and then just a couple of months later THIS SHIT HAPPENS. she said "i wasnt there enough" and i told her "wtf am i supposed to do? i got fucking shot for Christ sake." so now its over between us and now im questioning whether the kid shes having is mine of that other scum bags. oh and sorry i just needed to get it outta my system , and i cant go on ventrillo because im not living with her anymore and im currently at the library.