From what my parents have told me throughout the years. "Be yourself and show everyone out there that you are the bigger person, even if they judge you. Let it show them that it doesn't and will never hurt you again. You are your own person and you are unique in every way." Don't let anyone tell you to be someone else just because of what you think. People who use these terms are dealing with something as well. They want to fit in with everyone else because they feel good about it. Its your call to do this project. 2,000 people is a huge deal but if there is anyone in that crowd, then it can help them as well as you. You can show them that there's nothing to be afraid. Don't be afraid to show who you truly are. Cus' in the end, it shows and many or someone will care about you no matter what happens