This sounds like another Sandstorm/Beth situation.
Basically, everything (that was constructive) is QTF.
I've been in this community for a while, and everytime a girl is on guys will go nuts.
Then there's some who apparently are just mad becuase mabye the "girl" isnt talking to them.
So really, your going to get shit, no matter what. Best thing to do is tell an admin that your being disrespected and everything will be cool, but you also have to remeber that here at SG, we LOVE to joke around also. [Take note from the guy who've basically was aboosed by ALMOST every admin.]
-Bald.