6'4 lanklet checking in. Thank god you didn't mention vaping
While some of these may, be taken as indicators of other issues, or red flags, I don't think they necessarily define who a person is. People change, and if they're willing to date you with opposing stances on some of these things, they probably don't attribute a great deal of importance to them.
I started dating my girlfriend when I was 15 and she was a polar opposite of me: far left politics, anti-religious, dyed hair, claimed to be bisexual (despite having no previous romantic or sexual partners), etc. you get the point. Despite all of this, 4 years down the road, she's come 180 and hates to think of the person she used to be. I think if someone loves you enough, and if you love them, they're willing to change for you, or at least think about whether you or their politics are more important. Granted she was 15, so someone who is say 25, may be a bit less malleable.
I could never be with someone who doesn't enjoy talking to me. I don't need them to be interested in everything I am, but they should at least be able to hold a conversation. I consider myself very fortunate to have someone who puts up with all the random nonsense I spout about movies, art, politics, work, etc. You would be surprised by the number of people that aren't willing to entertain a conversation, much less engage in actual discussion.